Listen I am so here for platonic “I love you"s. I don’t care if you think “I love you” is some sacred phrase to only utter to one person in your life, i don’t care if you think it makes me look overbearing. I say “I love you” to my friends every time I say goodbye because I want them to know 100% without a doubt that I care for them and love them and am there for them so so much.
Packers, STPs, and Dildos: A List for Transmasculine Folks!
If the link doesn’t work, just google the product name because many of these are sold in multiple stores/websites and please send me an ask so I can fix the link. This list comes from my intro to packing post.
If you’re a teen trying to get a packer without your parents knowing, see this link.
As always, comparison shop to see if the product comes in different colors elsewhere or is being sold for cheaper on another site- remember to calculate shipping!
Make sure you read multiple reviews before you buy a packer, because some companies are scams or just shitty. Three companies to avoid are below:
Don’t shop at packer locker- it’s a scam and I personally lost $15 dollars from them that I never got back and others have lost more
Don’t shop at The Ultimate Prosthetic- This is also a scam and people have lost hundreds of dollars and never received products
Don’t shop at FtmConnect- the owner is racist and the packers aren’t even that great anyway.
Don’t shop at STP Ninja (it’s the same guy from FTM connect using a different name). Other of his company names are Ftm Connect Llc, FTMSTP, STPninja, and his aliases are Benson Davis, Ben Davis, Dick Benson, and Ben Johnson
I want mental health to be so normalised that little children can tell their parents if they’re feeling mentally ill just like they would if they had a stomach ache or a fever.
I want mental health to be so normalised that school lets you go home after a panic attack episode like they do if you sustain an injury.
I want mental health to be so normalised that when someone’s in recovery the people around them ask for progress reports and send get well soon cards just like they would for any other sort of recovery.
I want mental health to be normalised because every mental health disorder is just as frightening, just as damaging as a life threatening injury and we pass people by every day who are so unwell in this sense but who don’t receive a fraction of the care they deserve just because mental health is unseen.